{"id":606,"date":"2021-10-25T12:35:29","date_gmt":"2021-10-25T10:35:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/?p=606"},"modified":"2021-10-25T12:35:29","modified_gmt":"2021-10-25T10:35:29","slug":"jak-zacina-sikana-u-deti-myslite-si-ze-byste-to-poznali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/?p=606","title":{"rendered":"Jak za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 \u0161ikana u d\u011bt\u00ed: Mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee byste to poznali?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Znaky, \u017ee va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b \u0161ikanuj\u00ed. Mnoz\u00ed rodi\u010de ani netu\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee si z jejich d\u00edt\u011bte spolu\u017e\u00e1ci utahuj\u00ed, nebo si z n\u011bj d\u011blaj\u00ed fackovac\u00edho pan\u00e1ka. V\u00fdsledkem je n\u00edzk\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a psychick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Rozezn\u00e1te sign\u00e1ly, \u017ee n\u011bco nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku?<br>Jak poznat, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b n\u011bkdo \u0161ikanuje?<br>T\u00e9ma \u0161ikany na \u0161kol\u00e1ch se dnes objevuje st\u00e1le \u010dast\u011bji bohu\u017eel nejen v m\u00e9di\u00edch, ale i v psychologick\u00fdch poradn\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kolektivy d\u011bt\u00ed v sob\u011b skr\u00fdvaj\u00ed vlastn\u00ed hierarchii &#8211; v ka\u017ed\u00e9m z nich je t\u0159\u00eddn\u00ed v\u016fdce, ale i \u0161a\u0161ek. Stejn\u011b sem pat\u0159\u00ed ti\u0161\u0161\u00ed \u017e\u00e1ci, kte\u0159\u00ed se nejednou stanou ter\u010dem \u00fatok\u016f. Odhalit skute\u010dn\u00e9 \u0161ikana nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e9, speci\u00e1ln\u011b mezi dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edmi v posledn\u00edch ro\u010dn\u00edc\u00edch z\u00e1kladn\u00edch \u0161kol.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159esto, existuj\u00ed sign\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 napov\u00ed, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b v kolektivu nen\u00ed spokojen\u00e9, uzn\u00e1van\u00e9, ba co v\u00edc &#8211; trp\u00ed psychicky a nejednou i fyzicky. K tomu se p\u0159id\u00e1v\u00e1 nov\u00e1 forma \u0161ikany &#8211; kyber\u0161ikana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ka\u017ed\u00fd p\u00e1t\u00fd zn\u00e1 \u0161ikanu na vlastn\u00ed k\u016f\u017ei<br>P\u0159\u00edznaky \u0161ikany mohou b\u00fdt t\u011b\u017eko rozpoznateln\u00e9, to v\u0161ak neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee nejsou nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9. Pr\u00e1v\u011b naopak. Studie spole\u010dnosti Ditch the Label uk\u00e1zala, \u017ee \u0161ikana ovlivnilo du\u0161evn\u00ed zdrav\u00ed mnoha mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed, p\u0159i\u010dem\u017e t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 polovina v d\u016fsledku t\u00e9to zku\u0161enosti upadla do deprese.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na v\u00fdzkumu se z\u00fa\u010dastnilo 2 300 mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed ve v\u011bku od 12 do 20 let. Jeden z p\u011bti uvedl, \u017ee byl za posledn\u00edch 12 m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f \u0161ikanov\u00e1n a ka\u017ed\u00fd des\u00e1t\u00fd p\u0159iznal, \u017ee k \u0161ikan\u011b doch\u00e1z\u00ed denn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u0159etina respondent\u016f, kte\u0159\u00ed m\u011bli zku\u0161enosti se \u0161ikanou, za\u017eila sebevra\u017eedn\u00e9 my\u0161lenky a 41% poci\u0165ovalo \u00fazkost. 62% respondent\u016f za\u017eilo \u0161ikanu ze strany spolu\u017e\u00e1ka ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b a 37% ze strany jin\u00e9 osoby, kter\u00e1 nav\u0161t\u011bvovala jejich \u0161kolu. T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 dv\u011b t\u0159etiny respondent\u016f se domn\u00edvali, \u017ee p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinou \u0161ikany je jejich vzhled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00datoky, a nejen slovn\u00ed<br>Nejb\u011b\u017en\u011bj\u0161\u00ed formou \u0161ikany jsou slovn\u00ed \u00fatoky, \u010dast\u00e9 je tak\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vylou\u010den\u00ed &#8211; vylou\u010den\u00ed z kolektivu, her, aktivit, zastra\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed a v\u00fdjimkou nen\u00ed ani t\u011blesn\u00e9 \u0161ikana. Navzdory n\u00e1r\u016fstu vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00edch m\u00e9di\u00ed, kyber\u0161ikana je zat\u00edm nejm\u00e9n\u011b \u010dasto formou \u0161ikany.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jak odhalit zn\u00e1mky \u0161ikany? A co m\u016f\u017eeme ud\u011blat, abychom pomohli sv\u00fdm d\u011btem?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sign\u00e1ly \u0161ikany, p\u0159i kter\u00fdch byste m\u011bli zpozorn\u011bt<br>-V\u0161\u00edmajte si, jak vypad\u00e1 jeho oble\u010den\u00ed, kdy\u017e p\u0159ijde ze \u0161koly &#8211; roztrhan\u00e9 oble\u010den\u00ed, \u010dast\u00e9 nehody, mod\u0159iny, mohou b\u00fdt znakem, \u017ee se d\u011bje n\u011bco, \u010demu se v\u00e1\u0161 syn nebo dcera neum\u00ed ubr\u00e1nit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Je hladov\u00fd \/ \u00e1, nikdy nem\u00e1 pen\u00edze, p\u0159esto, \u017ee jste mu dali kapesn\u00ed a nic si za n\u011b nekoupil. Nebo chod\u00ed p\u011b\u0161ky, i kdy\u017e jste mu dali pen\u00edze na autobus tramvajenku. \u0160ikan\u00f3zn\u00ed d\u011bti \u010dasto berou sva\u010dinu nebo pen\u00edze druh\u00fdm, nemaj\u00ed probl\u00e9m ukr\u00e1st pr\u016fkaz na MHD, jen aby spolu\u017e\u00e1kovi ubl\u00ed\u017eili.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-683x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-608\" srcset=\"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-683x1024.jpeg 683w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-200x300.jpeg 200w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-768x1152.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-150x225.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-300x450.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-696x1044.jpeg 696w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355-280x420.jpeg 280w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-9952355.jpeg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Zmenilo se jeho \/ jej\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed &#8211; je nezvykle n\u00e1ladov\u00fd \/ \u00e1 nebo uta\u017een \/ \u00e1 do sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Zhor\u0161uje se mu prosp\u011bch ve \u0161kole.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Zdr\u00e1ha se j\u00edt do \u0161koly, trv\u00e1 na tom, abyste \u0161li s n\u00edm \/ s n\u00ed nebo p\u0159edst\u00edr\u00e1, \u017ee mu je \u0161patn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Jm\u00e9no se jeho \/ jej\u00ed stravovac\u00ed n\u00e1vyky nebo \u0161patn\u011b sp\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Co d\u011blat, pokud zaznamen\u00e1te zn\u00e1mky \u0161ikany?<br>Vysv\u011btlete sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti, \u017ee nez\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed na tom, jakou barvu vlas\u016f m\u00e1me, co m\u00e1me na sob\u011b, jak mluv\u00edme, jak kr\u00e1\u010d\u00edme. V\u0161ichni jsme n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem odli\u0161n\u00ed, a to je d\u016fvod, pro\u010d jsme \u00fa\u017easn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby se nau\u010dilo o \u0161ikan\u011b mluvit, proto mu projevujte d\u016fv\u011bru a uka\u017ete mu, \u017ee jste v\u017edy p\u0159i n\u011bm, kdy\u017e v\u00e1s pot\u0159ebuje. Vysv\u011btlete mu, \u017ee existuj\u00ed d\u016fv\u011brn\u00e9 linky a e-mailov\u00e9 adresy, kam se m\u016f\u017ee obr\u00e1tit, pokud m\u00e1 probl\u00e9my se \u0161ikanou a nechce se sv\u011b\u0159it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pracujte na zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00ed sebev\u011bdom\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte: \u0161ikana naru\u0161uje sebev\u011bdom\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte, proto ho chvalte a povzbuzujte p\u0159i ka\u017ed\u00e9 mo\u017en\u00e9 p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitosti.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Znaky, \u017ee va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b \u0161ikanuj\u00ed. Mnoz\u00ed rodi\u010de ani netu\u0161\u00ed, \u017ee si z jejich d\u00edt\u011bte spolu\u017e\u00e1ci utahuj\u00ed, nebo si z n\u011bj d\u011blaj\u00ed fackovac\u00edho pan\u00e1ka. V\u00fdsledkem je n\u00edzk\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed a psychick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Rozezn\u00e1te sign\u00e1ly, \u017ee n\u011bco nen\u00ed v po\u0159\u00e1dku?Jak poznat, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b n\u011bkdo \u0161ikanuje?T\u00e9ma \u0161ikany na \u0161kol\u00e1ch se dnes objevuje st\u00e1le \u010dast\u011bji bohu\u017eel nejen v m\u00e9di\u00edch, ale [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":607,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[262],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-606","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-magazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=606"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":609,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/606\/revisions\/609"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/607"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=606"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=606"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=606"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}