{"id":622,"date":"2021-10-25T14:17:16","date_gmt":"2021-10-25T12:17:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/?p=622"},"modified":"2021-10-25T14:17:17","modified_gmt":"2021-10-25T12:17:17","slug":"5-dulezitych-duvodu-proc-by-deti-nemely-byt-nejdulezitejsimi-cleny-rodiny-i-kdyz-je-bezmezne-milujeme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/?p=622","title":{"rendered":"5 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d by d\u011bti nem\u011bly b\u00fdt nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi \u010dleny rodiny, i kdy\u017e je bezmezn\u011b milujeme"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016f\u017eeme je milovat, cht\u00edt jim d\u00e1t v\u0161echno, ale je zde jist\u00e1 hranice \u2026<br>V\u011bd\u011bli jste, \u017ee pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00fd rodi\u010d nebyl na romantick\u00e9m rande s partnerem v\u00edce ne\u017e t\u0159i roky? \u017de pr\u00e1v\u011b spole\u010dn\u00e9 tr\u00e1ven\u00ed \u010dasu s partnerem je to, co rodi\u010d\u016fm nejv\u00edce chyb\u00ed, odkdy maj\u00ed d\u011bti? P\u0159itom pevn\u00e9, spokojen\u00e9 partnerstv\u00ed je z\u00e1klad \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 rodiny.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Loni se mezi 2000 rodi\u010di (s d\u011btmi ve v\u011bku 5-18 let) ud\u011blal men\u0161\u00ed pr\u016fzkum, kter\u00fd zkoumal, co rodi\u010d\u016fm d\u011bt\u00ed chyb\u00ed nejv\u00edce, po \u010dem nejv\u00edce tou\u017e\u00ed z obdob\u00ed p\u0159ed d\u011btmi a jak spole\u010dn\u011b tr\u00e1v\u00ed \u010das &#8211; a zda v\u016fbec &#8211; bez d\u011bt\u00ed, aby oba rodi\u010de pracovali na vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9m vztahu, porozum\u011bn\u00ed a l\u00e1sce \u010di intimit\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Zde jsou v\u00fdsledky: Co rodi\u010d\u016fm v parterstve nejv\u00edce chyb\u00ed odkdy jsou rodi\u010di?<br>-7 z 10 rodi\u010d\u016f poklesla romantika ve vztahu, odkdy m\u011bly d\u011bti<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-3 rodi\u010de z 10 si na posledn\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 romantick\u00e9 rande ani nezmi\u0148uj\u00ed, p\u0159itom v\u011bt\u0161ina dotazovan\u00fdch by tento fakt r\u00e1da zm\u011bnila<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-81% dotazovan\u00fdch rodi\u010d\u016f by cht\u011bli \u010dast\u011bji tr\u00e1vit \u010das s partnerem &#8211; nap\u0159\u00edklad v podob\u011b spole\u010dn\u00fdch ve\u010der\u016f<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-53% rodi\u010d\u016f chyb\u00ed z doby p\u0159ed d\u011btmi svoboda, ale mnohem v\u00edce tou\u017e\u00ed po \u010dase str\u00e1ven\u00e9m jen s partnerem<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-TOP 5 v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 rodi\u010d\u016fm nejv\u00edce chyb\u00ed z doby, kdy nem\u011bli d\u011bti: &#8211; 45% chyb\u00ed \u010dist\u011b kvalitn\u00ed \u010das str\u00e1ven\u00fd s partnerem, &#8211; 44% chyb\u00ed rande s partnerem n\u011bkde mimo domov, &#8211; 40% chyb\u00ed m\u00e9n\u011b odpov\u011bdnosti, &#8211; 39% chce v\u00edce sexu, &#8211; 36% chce v\u00edce sp\u00e1nku, &#8211; 36% chce v\u00edce cestov\u00e1n\u00ed, -31% chce \u010das s\u00e1m pro sebe. V\u00fdsledky v\u0161ak neznamenaly, \u017ee jsou dot\u00e1zan\u00ed rodi\u010de m\u00e9n\u011b \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e kdy\u017e nem\u011bli d\u011bti &#8211; naopak &#8211; s d\u011btmi a\u017e 77% dotazovan\u00fdch potvrdily, \u017ee maj\u00ed naplnenej\u0161\u00ed a \u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u017eivot<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">-Co se t\u00fdk\u00e1 pracuj\u00edc\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f: TOP 5 v\u011bc\u00ed, kter\u00e9 cht\u011bj\u00ed d\u011blat po pracovn\u00ed dob\u011b a na co se po pr\u00e1ci nejv\u00edce t\u011b\u0161\u00ed: 44% spole\u010dn\u00e1 ve\u010de\u0159e s celou rodinou v\u010detn\u011b d\u011bt\u00ed, 39% ukl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed do postele, 37% \u010dten\u00ed poh\u00e1dky na dobrou noc , 35% tulen\u00ed se s d\u011btmi, 35% tulen\u00ed se s partnerem<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Tak\u017ee pro\u010d by nem\u011bly b\u00fdt d\u011bti nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi \u010dleny rodiny? A pro\u010d se vlastn\u011b st\u00e1le pt\u00e1me? Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee po p\u0159\u00edchodu d\u011bt\u00ed do rodiny nast\u00e1v\u00e1 hektick\u00e9 obdob\u00ed \u017eivota &#8211; kdo si vyzkou\u0161el, s\u00e1m v\u00ed. Partne\u0159i tehdy na del\u0161\u00ed dobu zapom\u00ednaj\u00ed na sebe, sv\u00e9 pot\u0159eby, odkl\u00e1daj\u00ed je na pozd\u011bji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V po\u0159\u00e1dku, jen\u017ee &#8222;na pozd\u011bji&#8220; n\u011bkdy znamen\u00e1 nejasn\u00fd \u010dasov\u00fd horizont &#8211; a jednoho dne si najednou partne\u0159i uv\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee se staly jen spolubydl\u00edc\u00edmi. Intimita, romantika, dokonce vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 porozum\u011bn\u00ed si je fu\u010d. Nen\u00e1vratn\u011b? Terapeuti a terapeutky upozor\u0148uj\u00ed, \u017ee probl\u00e9mem je \u017eeb\u0159\u00ed\u010dek hodnot &#8211; na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b jsou d\u011bti m\u00edsto vztahu obou rodi\u010d\u016f. Zde je pes zakopan\u00fd, toto je h\u0159eb\u00edk, kter\u00fd je t\u0159eba ude\u0159it po hlavi\u010dce.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A tady jsou d\u016fvody, pro\u010d to t\u0159eba zm\u011bnit, nebo t\u011bch p\u011bt d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d by d\u011bti nem\u011bly b\u00fdt nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi \u010dleny z rodiny \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Lekce o respektov\u00e1n\u00ed sebe i ostatn\u00ed<br>Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee s p\u0159\u00edchodem d\u00edt\u011bte p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed i obrovsk\u00e1 odpov\u011bdnost, starosti, mnohdy narozen\u00ed znamen\u00e1 ot\u0159esen\u00ed star\u00fdm a vytvo\u0159en\u00ed nov\u00e9ho \u017eeb\u0159\u00ed\u010dku hodnot, ale tato n\u00e1dhern\u00e1 zku\u0161enost zp\u016fsob\u00ed, \u017ee p\u00e9\u010de o partnera a partnerstv\u00ed-vztah v\u016fbec odch\u00e1z\u00ed do pozad\u00ed. M\u00edt d\u00edt\u011b je pro mnoho p\u00e1r\u016f obrovsk\u00fdm testem pro man\u017eelstv\u00ed-partnerstv\u00ed.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rovnov\u00e1ha v dynamice rodiny v\u0161ak nepo\u010dk\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 dlouho &#8211; partne\u0159i se po jist\u00e9m \u010dase mus\u00ed, pokud jim na sob\u011b z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed, postarat io vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 pot\u0159eby &#8211; minim\u00e1ln\u011b pot\u0159ebu jeden druh\u00e9ho. Podle psychoterapie si rodi\u010de zapom\u00ednaj\u00ed nach\u00e1zet op\u011btovn\u011b cestu jeden k druh\u00e9mu. Spojit se, nav\u00e1zat kontakt, opr\u00e1\u0161it intimn\u00ed \u017eivot, komunikaci.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd vztah p\u0159estane b\u00fdt prioritou a to je podle psycholog\u016f a psychologi\u010diek chyba, kterou se sna\u017e\u00ed dvojic\u00edm, kte\u0159\u00ed p\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed na rodinnou terapii, p\u0159ipom\u00ednat. Spole\u010dn\u011b tr\u00e1ven\u00fd \u010das, kdy se soust\u0159ed\u00edte jen jeden na druh\u00e9ho, je z\u00e1kladem obnovy vztahu mezi partnery. Pro rovnov\u00e1hu v rodin\u011b, je t\u0159eba obnovit rovnov\u00e1hu ve vztahu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" src=\"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-7637200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-624\" srcset=\"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-7637200.jpeg 1000w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-7637200-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-7637200-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-7637200-150x100.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-7637200-696x464.jpeg 696w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-7637200-630x420.jpeg 630w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A \u010d\u00edm je vztah mezi partnery siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, t\u00edm v\u00edce z n\u011bj benefituj\u00ed samotn\u00e9 d\u011bti. Pro\u010d? Proto\u017ee \u010d\u00edm v\u00edce konflikt\u016f vznik\u00e1 mezi partnery, t\u00edm v\u00edce emocion\u00e1ln\u00edho, psychick\u00e9ho stresu d\u011bti pro\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed. A nezapom\u00ednejte na to, \u017ee jsou egocentrick\u00e9 &#8211; \u010dili v\u0161echnu vinu h\u00e1zej\u00ed na sebe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nau\u010dte se proto konflikty efektivn\u011b zvl\u00e1dat, objas\u0148ovat jak\u00e9koliv pochybnosti, Randy, u\u010dte se \u010d\u00edst jeden druh\u00e9ho, u\u017e\u00edvat si vz\u00e1jemnou p\u0159\u00edtomnost, mluvit, dr\u017eet za ruce \u2026 Tedy energii rozd\u011blte tak, aby z n\u00ed dost\u00e1val i partner.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u016f\u017eeme je milovat, cht\u00edt jim d\u00e1t v\u0161echno, ale je zde jist\u00e1 hranice \u2026V\u011bd\u011bli jste, \u017ee pr\u016fm\u011brn\u00fd rodi\u010d nebyl na romantick\u00e9m rande s partnerem v\u00edce ne\u017e t\u0159i roky? \u017de pr\u00e1v\u011b spole\u010dn\u00e9 tr\u00e1ven\u00ed \u010dasu s partnerem je to, co rodi\u010d\u016fm nejv\u00edce chyb\u00ed, odkdy maj\u00ed d\u011bti? P\u0159itom pevn\u00e9, spokojen\u00e9 partnerstv\u00ed je z\u00e1klad \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9 rodiny. Loni se mezi 2000 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":623,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"tdm_status":"","tdm_grid_status":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[262],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-622","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-magazin"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/622","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=622"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/622\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":625,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/622\/revisions\/625"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/623"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=622"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=622"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=622"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}