{"id":630,"date":"2021-10-25T14:23:20","date_gmt":"2021-10-25T12:23:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/?p=630"},"modified":"2021-10-25T14:23:21","modified_gmt":"2021-10-25T12:23:21","slug":"jak-zvladnout-vzdor-ditete-11-rad-ktere-je-dulezite-mit-vzdy-na-pameti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/?p=630","title":{"rendered":"Jak zvl\u00e1dnout vzdor d\u00edt\u011bte? 11 rad, kter\u00e9 je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 m\u00edt v\u017edy na pam\u011bti"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d se s f\u00e1z\u00ed vzdoru mus\u00ed v ur\u010dit\u00e9m okam\u017eiku vyrovnat, zejm\u00e9na b\u011bhem batolec\u00edch let.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mal\u00e9 d\u011bti st\u00e1le rozv\u00edjej\u00ed schopnost regulovat sv\u00e9 emoce a impulzy; mus\u00ed se nau\u010dit, co se od nich o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jedine\u010dn\u00e9. Co funguje na jedno d\u00edt\u011b, nemus\u00ed fungovat na druh\u00e9. &#8222;Po zadku&#8220; nezab\u00edr\u00e1, kdy\u017e tak jen nakr\u00e1tko. Z dlouhodob\u00e9ho hlediska v\u00edce \u0161kod\u00ed, ne\u017e pom\u00e1h\u00e1 zlep\u0161it chov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte ..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Na zvl\u00e1dnut\u00ed vypjat\u00e9 situace m\u016f\u017eete vyzkou\u0161et jednu z n\u00e1sleduj\u00edc\u00edch strategii:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Zapojte d\u00edt\u011b co nejv\u00edce do chodu dom\u00e1cnosti<br>D\u011bti r\u00e1di spolupracuj\u00ed. D\u00edky pozitivn\u00edm projevem za vykonanou pr\u00e1ci, jak pochvala, se budou d\u011bti c\u00edtit bezpe\u010dn\u011b, motivovan\u00e9, a z\u00edsk\u00e1vaj\u00ed cenn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed dovednosti. Mnoho jejich chvalte pokud se chovaj\u00ed podle pravidel.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Negativn\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed n\u00e1s \u010dasto provokuje, d\u011bl\u00e1 z n\u00e1s podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u00fdch, rozzloben\u00fdch, frustrovan\u00fdch ba a\u017e zoufal\u00fdch. Zejm\u00e9na citliv\u00e9 d\u011bti mohou reagovat podr\u00e1\u017ed\u011bn\u011b, pomozte jim tedy naj\u00edt p\u0159\u00ed\u010dinu jejich hn\u011bvu, n\u00e1sledn\u011b jim nab\u00eddn\u011bte alternativn\u00ed \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vzdorovit\u00e9 d\u011bti jsou nejhor\u0161\u00edmi nep\u0159\u00e1teli sob\u011b, proto\u017ee se dr\u017e\u00ed vzorc\u016f chov\u00e1n\u00ed, d\u00edky kter\u00fdm lid\u00e9 reaguj\u00ed negativn\u011b. Pr\u00e1v\u011b rodi\u010de nesm\u011bj\u00ed kontraproduktivn\u00ed reagovat, nebo\u0165 nevhodn\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed se stane systematick\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u0161ak mus\u00edte stanovit limity. V\u011bt\u0161ina va\u0161\u00ed komunikace by m\u011bla z\u016fstat podporuj\u00edc\u00ed &#8211; neodmietaj\u00faca. Omezte tresty a z\u00e1kazy. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b zabra\u0148te mu v ni\u010den\u00ed v\u011bc\u00ed, nebo bit\u00ed jin\u00fdch. Zam\u011b\u0159te se ve v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed m\u00ed\u0159e na celkov\u00fd emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed stav d\u00edt\u011bte, nam\u00edsto na nevhodn\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00fdchova tvrdohlav\u00e9ho a sv\u00e9hlav\u00fd d\u00edt\u011bte je n\u011bkdy po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00fd o\u0159\u00ed\u0161ek. Neztr\u00e1cejte ale hlavu; sta\u010d\u00ed si pamatovat p\u00e1r z\u00e1kladn\u00edch v\u011bc\u00ed, a zvl\u00e1dnete to levou zadn\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"2\"><li>Pom\u00e1hejte d\u011btem rozv\u00edjet soci\u00e1ln\u011b-emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed schopnosti<br>A vyh\u00fdbejte se situac\u00edm, kter\u00e9 je p\u0159et\u011b\u017euj\u00ed.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Podporujte d\u011bti v projevech trp\u011blivosti. Je t\u0159eba m\u00edt v\u016f\u010di jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed realistick\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. Pro t\u0159\u00edlet\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je velmi n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 ti\u0161e a ne\u010dinn\u011b sed\u011bt v \u010dek\u00e1rn\u011b u l\u00e9ka\u0159e. Nam\u00edsto k\u0159iku a negativn\u00ed kritiky byste m\u011bli podpo\u0159it pozitivn\u00ed atmosf\u00e9ru, aby z\u016fstali motivovan\u00e9, pozorn\u00e9 a ochotn\u00e9 poslouchat. Pokud vydr\u017e\u00ed nap\u0159\u00edklad b\u011bhem dan\u00e9 doby kreslit nebo \u010d\u00edst, nezapome\u0148te je pochv\u00e1lit, takto se budou sna\u017eit i p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pokud v\u0161ak \u0159eknete d\u00edt\u011bti, aby ne\u010dinn\u011b sed\u011blo hodinu, p\u0159ecenit d\u00edt\u011b. D\u011bti budou ve stresu, \u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eou splnit na\u0161e standardy a budou se chovat nevhodn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vyj\u00e1d\u0159ete sv\u00e9 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed jasn\u011b a klidn\u011b, vyhn\u011bte se d\u016frazu na z\u00e1kazy. Pokud se d\u011bti chovaj\u00ed nevhodn\u011b, poskytn\u011bte jim p\u0159\u00e1telsk\u00e9 p\u0159ipomenut\u00ed toho co maj\u00ed d\u011blat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pomozte d\u011btem pochopit emoce, aby si vytv\u00e1\u0159eli pozitivn\u00ed vztahy v rodin\u011b is vrstevn\u00edky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Co lid\u00ed zlob\u00ed nebo truchl\u00ed?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Jak m\u016f\u017eeme tyto pocity uklidnit nebo zabr\u00e1nit tomu, aby v prvn\u00ed \u0159ad\u011b vybuchly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u011bti nemaj\u00ed r\u00e1di zm\u011bny. D\u011bti pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed pro p\u0159izp\u016fsoben\u00ed se zm\u011bn\u00e1m v\u00edce \u010dasu ne\u017e dosp\u011bl\u00ed. Reak\u010dn\u00ed \u010dasy a p\u0159echod z jedn\u00e9 \u010dinnosti na druhou trv\u00e1 d\u011btem d\u00e9le. Pokud p\u0159ijde n\u00e1v\u0161t\u011bva, nenu\u0165te hned d\u00edt\u011b p\u016fj\u010dovat hra\u010dky ciz\u00edm d\u011btem. P\u0159\u00edkazy mohou vyvolat zbyte\u010dn\u00fd vzdor. Odm\u011b\u0148ujte d\u011bti pozitivn\u00ed zp\u011btnou vazbou, pokud se rozhodnou hra\u010dku p\u016fj\u010dit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"3\"><li>Pochopte, pro\u010d se d\u011bti chovaj\u00ed &#8222;vzdorovit\u011b&#8220;<br>U velmi mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed to, co vypad\u00e1 jako vzdor, je obvykle n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho &#8211; v\u00fdvojov\u00e1 neschopnost ovl\u00e1dat impulsy, zvl\u00e1dat emoce, pamatovat si pravidla nebo p\u0159edv\u00eddat, jak se budou c\u00edtit jin\u00ed lid\u00e9.<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u011bti se c\u00edt\u00ed rovnocenn\u00e9. Vzdor vych\u00e1z\u00ed z p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed d\u011bt\u00ed o autonomii a f\u00e9rovosti. D\u00edt\u011b by m\u011blo v\u011bd\u011bt pro\u010d ur\u010dit\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed je spravedliv\u00e9 a rozumn\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"847\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-847x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-632\" srcset=\"https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-847x1024.jpeg 847w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-248x300.jpeg 248w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-768x929.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-150x181.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-300x363.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-696x841.jpeg 696w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471-347x420.jpeg 347w, https:\/\/krkouni.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/pexels-photo-590471.jpeg 1000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 847px) 100vw, 847px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" start=\"4\"><li>Posilujte sebeovl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed a prosoci\u00e1ln\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed hran\u00edm vhodn\u00fdch her<br>D\u011bti se u\u010d\u00ed hrou. Podpora her s rodi\u010di a sourozenci pom\u00e1h\u00e1 d\u011btem nau\u010dit se vych\u00e1zet s ostatn\u00edmi a zvl\u00e1dat i negativn\u00ed emoce b\u011bhem prohry. U mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed ve v\u011bku 3-4 roky zaznamenali sn\u00ed\u017een\u00ed negativn\u00edch projev\u016f chov\u00e1n\u00ed b\u011bhem her jako Sochy, kter\u00e9 vy\u017eaduj\u00ed rychl\u00e9 reakce, ale i zastaven\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte.<\/li><li>Nepodce\u0148ujte vliv sp\u00e1nku<br>Nedostate\u010dn\u00fd sp\u00e1nek podporuje rozru\u0161en\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte. Zhor\u0161uje to schopnost \u010d\u00edst mimiku, a to vede k nedorozum\u011bn\u00ed a konflikt\u016fm. Nedostate\u010dn\u00fd sp\u00e1nek podporuje nevhodn\u00e9 projevy hyperaktivity a poruchy pozornosti.<\/li><li>Myslete na vlastn\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed a jeho vliv<br>Nerv\u00f3zn\u011b d\u011bti maj\u00ed v\u011bt\u0161inou nerv\u00f3zn\u00edch rodi\u010d\u016f. Plat\u00ed to i opa\u010dn\u011b. Nen\u00ed jednoduch\u00e9 z\u016fstat klidn\u00fd p\u0159i v\u00fdbuchu vzdoru d\u00edt\u011bte, nejsme p\u0159ece stroje. Pokud z\u016fstanete klidn\u00ed, sn\u00ed\u017e\u00edte stres a i d\u00edt\u011b se jednodu\u0161\u0161\u00ed uklidn\u00ed.<\/li><\/ol>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d se s f\u00e1z\u00ed vzdoru mus\u00ed v ur\u010dit\u00e9m okam\u017eiku vyrovnat, zejm\u00e9na b\u011bhem batolec\u00edch let. Mal\u00e9 d\u011bti st\u00e1le rozv\u00edjej\u00ed schopnost regulovat sv\u00e9 emoce a impulzy; mus\u00ed se nau\u010dit, co se od nich o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je jedine\u010dn\u00e9. Co funguje na jedno d\u00edt\u011b, nemus\u00ed fungovat na druh\u00e9. &#8222;Po zadku&#8220; nezab\u00edr\u00e1, kdy\u017e tak jen nakr\u00e1tko. 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